Frustrated...

Just when you think something is behind you, BOOM!!! There it is yet again. I hate that constant reminder. I guess I'm just so disappointed in people in general I don't even understand it myself.
I feel like when others make mistakes that affect you, or hurt you directly...it feels like to me other people do their best to make them feel "comfortable" at "ease" "normal" all of those things, but what I really feel is, HEY I didn't do anything, how about my feelings, how about my normalcy again? When and where are my feelings going to be remembered? I guess perhaps the hardest truth in all of this, is that maybe the people that feel like they have to do these things for others and accommodate them, perhaps they value their relationship more, and OUCH boy does that ever hurt. Because really it feels like I just got slapped in the face yet again.